Speed dating may turn out to be a fad and they’ve just brought out a kind of speed dating where all you do is stare into each other’s eyes. Which is funny really because I think that’s just crazy and yet my biggest problem with normal speed dating is guys who don’t make eye contact when they try to chat me up! So the first of my first speed dating tips is to look at me! Anyway given that the more conventional form of speed dating where you can actually talk to me is pretty popular right now here are some speed dating tips for you guys, from the other side of the table.
Believe it or not… women are just like guys. They talk to each other about their sexual partners. I can tell you for a fact… you definitely don’t want to be talked about badly about your sexual abilities. Instead… you can definitely prosper in more ways than one by being a great lover. The greatest goal for most men is to have the ability to have the most available choices of quality women in their lives. Without choices… what do you have?
If you’re a bit overweight then there’s nothing that you can do in the short term. Don’t whatever you do go and buy one of those diet plans that promise that you’ll lose weight in a trice without any effort. It won’t work and you’ll feel miserable.
Make the best out of the profile that describes you. Take a pleasant looking photo, and remember to at least smile in the photo. Treat your profile like your personal advertisement. Write positive things about yourself, how you look at issues, what you enjoy doing, etc. Do not attempt to brag or boast stuff that you are not capable of. Keep your profile true to yourself. This is your first point of contact with any potential friend. If they feel comfortable after reading your profile, they will consider writing to you.
Men also want a woman who considers his livelihood. Ask him to go to Vegas or shop at New York if he’s a doctor or an attorney. Suggest to spend a couple of nights at Presidential Suite at the Plaza Hotel if adatingcupid.com he’s a successful business man or if he has a high position in a company. However, don’t ask him about any of these if he works at Circuit City. They do want to give you everything but they can only give you everything they can afford.
The one thing that is always a dampener on dating is self-doubt. Self-doubt is an absolute killer. If you allow yourself to be swamped by it you will have a truly miserable time. What’s the reason for self-doubt? It is self-manufactured and something that you can dispel with just a little effort. All you have to do is to ask yourself questions, questions that are focused on your strengths. Just think about all your plus points and then amplify them. You’ll soon feel more confident.
You don’t have to have the same hobbies that all guys seem to end up having if you don’t enjoy them. It’s all about being happy, right? Well, the happiest guys are the ones that actually have hobbies that they really enjoy, no matter what anyone else might think of them.
You can never experience anything new if you have a closed mind. Get over your preconceived notion of what others are and aren’t. Don’t judge your date prematurely or believe the stereotypes and warnings other people might tell you. Instead, let love take its course and see your date for who he or she really is. If you truly have an open mind, you won’t say any uncomfortable and offensive statements.
If you have any doubts about your weight then this is a long-term problem. Try making some serious changes in your life. Have a really good look at your eating and lifestyle habits. Examine the type of food that you are eating. Typically, does it contain lots of saturated fat, salt and sugar? If so change your shopping habits and buy more fruit and vegetables. Take more exercise. Stay aware of your eating and lifestyle habits and it will help to dispel your self-doubt.